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1302 Seventh Street
Wilson, OK 73463
Phone: (580) 668-2426
Fax: (580)-701-2576
Thomas  Idleman

Thomas Ellery "Tom " Idleman

Thursday, August 29th, 1946 - Thursday, March 14th, 2019
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Healdton - Memorial Services for Mr. Thomas "Tom" Ellery Idleman, 72, of Wilson are scheduled for 2:00 PM Wed. March 20, 2019 at the Kingdom Hall of Jehovah's Witnesses in Healdton with Bro. Chad Walker officiating. Services are under the care of Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Wilson.

Tom was born on August 29, 1946 at Wilson to the late Mr. Jess Thelbert "J.T" and Mrs. Tommy Lou (Cannon) Idleman. He departed this life on Thursday, March 14, 2019 at his home in Wilson.

Tom was raised in Wilson graduating from Wilson High School in 1964. Tom joined the United States Air Force on September 1, 1964 at San Antonio, TX. He made a career within the military serving mostly as a jet engine mechanic, retiring after 20 years of service. He retired in August of 1984 at Altus,OK as a Master Sargent.

During his military career, Tom was stationed all over the U.S. and overseas. While being stationed in Udon Thani, Thailand he met Boonhom "Hom" Nilkhamphee, who was working as a seamstress on the Air Force Base. They fell in love immediately and soon became married on April 19, 1969 at Thailand. They moved to the U.S. where they would raise their six daughters.

Tom worked after his retirement from the Air Force mostly as an entrepreneur owning and operating "Tom & Homs" restaurant. He also loved the country life raising cattle and other animals. He was most proud of becoming a Congregation Elder of the Kingdom Hall and was always extremely devout in his beliefs and service to his heavenly father, Jehovah. He enjoyed preaching to others about the good news of God's Kingdom.

Tom was a very proud father to his children and grandfather to his grandchildren. He could always be depended on by his friends and was considered a brother by many and was a devout member of the Kingdom Hall Jehovah's Witnesses of Healdton.

Preceding him in death are his parents; wife, Hom - Jan. 26, 2018; brother, Joseph Mark Idleman; sister, Mary Sue Venne and his mother in law, Boonchan Nilkamphee.

Survivors include daughters, Doungsri Sutthiboon of Ft. Worth, TX, Dawn George and Gus of St. Augustine, FL, Kinnali (Thim) Jordan and Lowell of Sachse, TX, Linda Sue Houchin and Jeff of Wilson, Tommi Weatherford and Scott of Ardmore, Sherri Brown and Edward of Ardmore; sister, Linda Covington and brother, David Idleman, both of Wilson; grandchildren, Sarah Sounavong, Cherry Sounavong, Samantha Spain, Katelyn Thompson, Jourdan Weatherford, Jamy Inglett, Joshua Houchin, D'mitrios Smith, Edric Brown, and Tyler George; five great- grandchildren, Karston Spain, Marley Inglett, Leland Sounavong, Kinsley Houchin, and Ellerie Spain; many nieces, nephews, other relatives and a host of friends.

In lieu of flowers donations can be made to the Kingdom Hall at JW.ORG or Cross Timbers Hospice of Ardmore 207 C St. NW.

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    Wednesday, March 20th, 2019 | 2:00pm
    Wednesday, March 20th, 2019 2:00pm
    Kingdom Hall of Jehovah's Witness
    2147 Texas St,
    HEALDTON, OK 73438
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Donations are being accepted for: CROSS TIMBERS HOSPICE INC.


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My condolences to the family. I know you look forward to seeing your love one, my spiritual brother in Paradise. (Luke 23:430

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Kinnali, Our hearts go out to you in your entire familty. Our prayers & our hope in the resurrection is real & needed during times as these.
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Marilyn Dougherty

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This is from a spiritual sister and brother from California USA. We saw your obituary and wanted to send condolences to the family. ❤ We look forward to meeting your loved one in the paradise to come. John 5:28; Revelation 21:3-5; Psalms 55:22

Sister Selby Posted at 07:43pm

Hello to the family and friends . My sincere Condolences , after reading this about our spiritual Brother, he is still giving a Witness. Here in Delaware USA......May Jehovah continue to strengthen you all . Colossians 1:11...

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